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Acronym/abbreviation expanded, definition |
| AAD |
Ambivilent Attachment Disorder: |
| AD |
Attachment Disorder; milder form of RAD |
| AD(H)D |
Attention Deficit (Hyperactivity) Disorder; "lifelong developmental disability that affects a child's ability to concentrate and control impulses. A child who is hyperactive has problems with an increased activity level." |
| AMOM, ADAD |
adoptive mom, dad |
| APAR(S) |
adoptive parent(s) |
| apostille |
certifies authenticity of individual notarizing or certifying documents; used in countries participating in the Hague Conference on international law. |
| APR |
A-Parents-Russia, a large international adoption e-mail list for Eastern European adoption maintained by Eastern European Adoption Coalition (EEAC). |
| ARBD |
Alcohol Related Birth Defects; anomolies such as heart defects, sight/hearing problems, joint anomalies, etc. |
| ARND |
Alcohol Related Neurodevelopmental Disorders; disorders such as ADD, behavior disorders, obsessive/compulsive disorder, etc. |
| BCG |
vaccine to protect against TB given in most parts of the world; causes a small scar |
| BCIS |
Bureau of Citizenship and Immigration Services (formerly INS). Now USCIS |
| BH |
baby house |
| bio |
biological, child born to parent; term is usually used only on adoptive parent e-mail lists and groups, not IRL. |
| BMOM, BDAD |
birth mom, birth dad |
| bobek |
baby in Russian |
| CAPD |
Central Auditory Processing Disorder; "A condition in which an individual has difficulty comprehending and integrating information that is heard, although hearing is normal. It occurs when the ear and the brain do not coordinate fully." |
| CIS |
Commonwealth of Independent States, created in December 1991 to promote economic trade between Russia and 11 Eastern European and Central Asian countries. |
| COC |
Certificate of Citizenship |
| detsky dom |
children's home |
| DH, DW, DD, DS |
dear husband, wife, daughter, son |
| DOA |
date of adoption (not dead on arrival, the standard medical meaning!) |
| DOB |
date of birth |
| dom rebyonka, dom malenkiego rebyonka |
baby house, little baby house; Russian |
| dossier |
"A set of legal documents which are used in an international adoption to process a child's adoption or assignment of guardianship in the foreign court." |
| EI |
Early Intervention; "federal entitlement for all children under the age of three for evaluation and treatment of developmental delays. Definition of delay, eligibility, and fees are set by each state." |
| EE |
Eastern Europe |
| ESL |
English as a Second Language |
| ESOL |
English for Speakers of Other Languages |
| FASD |
Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders; encompasses all effects of alcohol use during pregnancy, including FAE, FAS, ARBD and ARND. |
| FAE |
Fetal Alcohol Effect; "A disorder associated with cognitive and behavioral difficulties in children whose birth mothers drank alcohol while pregnant. Symptoms are similar to fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS) but less severe or comprehensive." |
| FAS |
Fetal Alcohol Syndrome; "Birth defects, and serious life-long mental and emotional impairments that may result from heavy maternal alcohol consumption during pregnancy. Symptoms of mental and emotional deficits may include significant learning and behavioral disorders (including attention deficits and hyperactivity), diminished cause-and-effect thinking, poor social judgment, and impulsive behaviors. " |
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| FSU |
countries that were members of the Former Soviet Union |
| gotcha day |
generally, the day that the adoptive parents were given custody of the child. Some parents choose to celebrate this day annually. |
| HS |
home study |
| IA |
international adoption |
| IEP |
Individualized Educational Plan; "a plan for educational support services and outcomes developed for students enrolled in special education programs." |
| INS |
Immigration and Naturalization Service. Now called USCIS. |
| LOI |
Letter of Invitation; required to apply for a visa for Kazakhstan |
| MFA |
Ministry of Foreign Affairs in Kazakhstan |
| MOE |
Ministry of Education in Kazakhstan, issues the LOI |
| NSN |
Non-special needs, more common to see in reference to adoptions from China |
| PDD |
Pervasive Development Disorder; "a large group of developmental disabilities which are neurological disorders, usually of unknown cause; types include Retts Syndrome, autism, and Aspergers Syndrome; characterized by severe and pervasive impairment in social interaction skills, communication skills and/or sterotyped behavior, interests, and activities." |
| PI |
Post Institutionalization; "used to describe an array of emotional and psychological disturbances, developmental delays, learning disabilities, and/or medical problems resulting, in part, from their stay in institutions." |
| PTSD |
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder; "A condition in which victims of overwhelming and uncontrollable experiences are subsequently psychologically affected by feelings of intense fear, loss of safety, loss of control, helplessness, and extreme vulnerability and in children the disorder involves disorganized or agitated behavior. " |
| RAD |
Reactive Attachment Disorder; "A condition with onset before age five, resulting from an early lack of consistent care, characterized by a child's or infant's inability to make appropriate social contact with others. Symptoms may include failure to thrive, developmental delays, failure to make eye contact, feeding disturbances, hyper-sensitivity to touch and sound, failure to initiate or respond to social interaction, indiscriminate sociability, self-stimulation, and susceptibility to infection." |
| Re-adoption |
"A term that is used to describe the practice of adopting a foreign child in the United States after it has already been adopted by its adoptive parents in the foreign country of its origin. The most common reason for a re-adoption is to allow the child to obtain a United States birth certificate, written in English, showing the adoptive parents as though they were the biological parents of the child." |
| SAHM, SAHD |
stay at home mom, dad |
| SID |
Sensory Integration Disorder or Sensory Integrative Dysfunction: "an interruption in the ability to assimilate our senses into our learning environment, defined as a neurological disorder that results in inefficient organization of sensory input received by the nervous system. Children who were deprived of touch, movement, sound and other normal sensory input may exhibit overly sensitive reactions to noises, touch, taste, smells, and sight." |
| SN |
special needs; "Common special needs conditions and diagnoses include: serious medical conditions; emotional and behavioral disorders; history of abuse or neglect; medical or genetic risk due to familial mental illness or parental substance abuse." |
| SSA, SSN |
Social Security Administration, social security number |
| SW |
social worker |
| USCIS |
US Citizenship and Immigration Services, previously known as INS and BCIS. For all of the various forms, go to the Pre-adoption: USCIS page. |
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| General Internet Lingo |
| AIM |
AOL Instant Messaging, popular program for chatting with someone online |
| Blog |
Web log, open forum, usually for 1 individual, to post thoughts, journals, pictures. |
| BTDT |
been there, done that |
| BTW |
by the way |
| FAQ |
Frequently Asked Question |
| FWIW |
for what it's worth |
| IMO |
in my opinion |
| IMHO |
in my humble opinion |
| IOW |
in other words |
| IRL |
in real life |
| LOL |
laugh out loud |
| OT |
off topic; not related to the usual discussions |
| PM |
Private Message, a direct e-mail or to a private inbox on public forums |
| ROFL, ROFLOL, ROFLMAO |
rolling on the floor: laughing, laughing out loud, laughing my a__ off |
| OTOH |
on the other hand |
| URL |
Uniform Resource Locator, i.e. a world wide web "address" of a site |